• SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world
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    We should all misgender every MAGAt male who enters the men’s bathroom. And tell them that pussies are not allowed in there.

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    If someone confronts you in a hateful way about your gender like this, maybe you suddenly become afraid for your safety (valid!) and spray them in the face with pepper spray.

    When people ask what happens say you became afraid the stranger was trying to hurt you and put your body under threat because they were.

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      Might go over better in court if you wait until after they are asking to see your private parts.

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      Better to just carry a gun and asking questions later. Make sure they know why they were killed before they die. Tell them to their face as they lay dying. “You die because you’re a sack of shit.”

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        Not defending the idea of vigilante justice for bathroom perverts – but even if so, why would it be important that they know why they were killed?

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    So pissing in a bowl is considered sexual assaulting women now? Wtf? Not like she did it out in public fucking hell America is making itself look shittier and shittier every day now

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    So Tomboys and Butch women are illegal now, got it.

    why not just rip the bandaid off and start saying only blonde white women are good, you’ve got Vince McMahon’s wife in the inner circle afterall…

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    God forbid you take a shit in the vicinity of someone with different genitalia. The entire bathroom debacle is straight up childish.

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      Good god, imagine them even looking different! At a certain point, I don’t even care about the genitals, I just don’t think women should be allowed to cut their hair or wear jeans or shoes (/s I don’t even know what I’m channeling at this point)

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        You’re probably channeling the type of Americans who don’t travel outside of their own country or if they do they only ever hang out in a Starbucks at the airport cuz anything non American scares them too much.

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    Imma gonna start calling these fools the twat pigs. Even “genital police” sounds too dignified

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    i knew a person that was misgendered, and was questioned by AA why she went into the womans bathroom because she was wearing a shoes and some clothes that men wear.

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    History has shown us that if a man wants to go into a women’s bathroom to harass or assault women, he doesn’t usually get all disguised to do it.

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    I don’t see what the big deal is about bathrooms. I have been to bars and nightclubs and even gas stations where there is no gender assigned to the bathrooms. You have stalls and you have urinals. Anyone who only wants to pee and can do so standing up, uses the urinal. Anyone who needs to poop or wants to sit down while they pee uses the stalls. No one touches anyone else without permission and staring at anyone else’s crotch in the bathroom is creepy. I know men are creepy but I would argue that they will behave themselves better when there is more traffic in and out of the bathroom. Hanging a sign that restricts gender won’t keep a creep from lurking in there anyway.

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      I once drunkenly wandered into the women’s restroom at a bar, took my piss after I couldn’t find the urinals, got all the way to the washing my hands phase, me and a lady who was also minding her business locked eyes while she also washed her hands, we both triple took, then I said “ooops I’m not supposed to be here” then we both just cackled, and went about our business.

      That’s the end of the story, no one was upset, no one was assaulted, no one gave a single fuck and we both had a good laugh.

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        A mate of mine met his wife in the women’s toilets

        (Mens was disgusting, he nipped across, she “caught” him in there and laughed her arse off at his expression. )

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        That’s just it, these pricks who keep throwing a fit about who uses which bathroom are really much more interested in hating transgender people than they are about protecting anyone. You can point out stats about who is actually assaulting who and how it’s happening, and it won’t change a thing, because protection was never the point.

        The cruelty is the point.

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          Nice high horse but those creeps will hate on the other cis gender as well. The article even says other women in line were criticizing – puritans and what not.
          Not a new phenomenon either.

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      It’s the same reason why there’s suddenly a big deal about women’s sports.
      It’s not about protecting women at all, since it now leads to men policing those spaces and basically demanding from women that they drop their panties to prove their sex.

      And that is the actual goal, to invade women’s spaces and bodies.

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      Very location dependent. I’ve no issue with trans women in the women’s bathrooms but I don’t want men in the women’s bathrooms everywhere. Clubs, parties, homes, work office even, but mostly anonymous quiet public bathrooms, no. And it’s about walking in and a man or group of men being in there already, plus being followed in.

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        This attitude doesn’t make any sense.

        If you don’t want groups of men in the womens’ toilets then why would you support a system that would force Trans men to use womens’ toilets on a mandatory basis?

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        “it’s about walking in and a man or group of men being in there already, plus being followed in.” A sign won’t prevent that. The sign will only prevent men who care about rules and social norms from going in there. The kind of men that we all need to worry about, don’t care about such things.

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    “For gender nonconforming, lesbians, women in general, being harassed in public restrooms is a tale as old as time. I do think the surge in national anti-trans rhetoric is contributing to an increased policing of women’s bodies and their expression of gender,” Selvaggio said.

    And yet, terfs will blame trans folks for this trend, instead of the anti-trans culture they themselves contribute to.

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      Yup, the terfs in line couldn’t imagine a woman exists who didn’t look like their version of a woman to them since she didn’t follow every trend of what “being a woman” should look like based on social media, most likely.

      Baker was born a woman and identifies as a woman. But, she said she was escorted out of the restroom and then comments were directed at her from other women waiting in line.

      “Someone said, ‘Get him out of here,’ referring to me. ‘He’s a creep,’ also referring to me,” Baker said.

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        Look at yourselves, making up a story you want to hear and then running wild with that narrative??

        There’s no indication at all that “radical feminists” are involved, and if there was, they’d probably be supporting the poor woman kicked out of the loo

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          Maybe I’m in a bubble, but it’s true that I haven’t heard a TERF of crypto-TERF talking point in a while. Even my mother who is somewhat susceptible has been quiet on it.

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      I’m already seeing it “Transpeople caused this!” “This wasn’t necessary until THEY stirred the pot!”

      TERF Kinds of fascist apologia

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    GUARD: SHOW ME YOUR PUSSY!

    GIRL: No, get out of the girl’s bathroom. I’m calling the police.

    GUARD: then… PROVE YOUR GENDER?

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    From the article:

    On Tuesday morning, The Liberty Hotel said it has finished an investigation into the incident and “the security officer is being suspended from their position.” It said all staff are being retrained “on inclusive practices and guest interaction protocols.” The hotel is also making a donation to a local LGBTQ+ organization.

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          Suspended, when it comes to private security, doesn’t mean the same thing as it does for law enforcement. He probably isn’t getting paid, because hotel security is paid hourly. If he has no hours, he has no pay.

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          This shit happened in my state. I am low key tempted to figure out who that is, book a trip to Boston coinciding with that dipshit’s return to service, and aggressively “transvestigate” their nasal cavity with pepper spray before I give their teeth an exclusive meet and greet with a curb.

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      I live in Boston. My parents have stayed at that hotel before while visiting me. I’m going to tell them to not consider it going forward.

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        The Hotel suspended the asshole guard and is doing a bunch of things to try to make amends and you want to punish them?

        Edit: and they are doing all of his in an America lead by an administration that is actively trying to punish any company or organization that even whispers inclusivity or acknowledges LGBTQ+ people and causes.