We live in the UK. She didn’t go any further than this. I got her to download TOR and use the “old.Reddit” trick to bypass this so it was only mildly infuriating for her in the end

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    Once more Reddit! Yea!!! Just delete your account and move along.

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      I was banned 5 days ago for 6 days. Can I be strong enough not to go back? Please give me the strength to stay away.

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        I’m not gonna lie, I visit Reddit too, but without an account and in private, for 3 and only communities. Most of my time is Lemmy. You can start slowly like I do. People use to complain about dead niche communities here, but no one contributes like some users do every day here. Be the change and help communities grow, so you don’t have to go back to Reddit.

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    This sounds more like a “fuck UK age restriction laws” not reddit.

    The UK’s age restriction laws online are now enforced under the Online Safety Act (OSA), which requires online platforms to verify the age of users before they access categories of “harmful” content, including pornography and content related to self-harm or eating disorders. Websites, apps, and services hosting such content must implement robust age checks, with platforms facing significant fines or blocking if they fail to comply. Methods for age verification can include facial age estimation, ID scanning, or credit card checks.

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      To be fair it’s about the new UK nanny dictatorship law.

      In theory lemmy should do the same and the UK government could sue and block access of any lemmy instance not following their ludicrous laws.

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      Honestly Lemmy gets mentally draining, constant political drama that is guaranteed to lean left, barely any non-partisan or neutral discussions happen here and god forbid anyone say anything that can be seen as conservative because a barrage of insults are certain to come your way.

      While I support the Lemmy project there are quite a few communities that I had subscribed to on Reddit that are missing here.

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        something tells me you whining about not having enough conservative propaganda on a site, that wants nothing to do with it, go back to reddit.

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          My “whining” is because of people like /u/dickalan@lemmy.world. This is what makes Lemmy mentally draining, they’re hellbent on their political ideology and if you don’t conform you get ousted, fed to the fishes so to speak.

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            I hear you.

            I’d never really encountered the nutty parts of progressive politics until coming to Lemmy. Often times you don’t need to say something conservative, but merely say something that challenges a poorly conceived thought bubble and you get piled on.

            There’s a really strong sense of idealism here. A lot of users deal in absolutes and don’t seem able to engage with the nuance of life.

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          Yeah, I just want beast mode on his ass and will probably get that comment removed. I just posted above you, but I don’t care anymore.

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        Lemmy sucks it just sucks different, its the photo negative of truth social and anyone who thinks that this place isnt just a different echo chamber is deluded.

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          Bro, these are real people with real opinions and you’re just shitting on all of that like it’s nothing, and the truth social comparison, jump up your own ass

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        Yeah, right propaganda is blatant, untruth, and whipping men who feel insignificant into a frenzy, fuck off you weirdo, go find your safe space backthere on Reddit dip shit. You have the hallmark of a person that cannot control what information gets into their brain, you know, keyword blocks, or a any thing you can to save yourself the mental anguish you clearly feel on a daily basis that you subject yourself to, I feel no sympathy for people that Can’t control what triggers them, again fuck you in the face, I don’t care if I’m gonna get dinged here on Lemmy . I’ve said what I have to say.

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          You do realize you just proved me right.

          god forbid anyone say anything that can be seen as conservative because a barrage of insults are certain to come your way.

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            Congrats you’re sticking in a round in a place you’re not wanted you’re clearly one in 1 million kid. Do you want to open yourself to more abuse You fucking glutton for punishment

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        I had to make an account that had no news and tried to limit anything that could regularly get too political for mental health

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          I have a good word filter list that seems to do the trick. Apart from when the titles are “things am I right?” And the description is “this ^”, no word filter will work on that. Wish there was a politics tag.

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        No matter what happens, I always expect Lemmy to have the worse possible take.

        I also don’t like that politics seems to spill into every community

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          It’s weird that you complain about what you subject yourself to, that’s a sin according to the satanic Bible

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          I also don’t like that politics seems to spill into every community

          Yes! This right bloody here, not everything needs to be political!

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              By politics they mean anything that’s left-wing. Right-wing stuff like causal racism isn’t seen as political since it’s so normalized in America.

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              Not really, need more popular hobby communities as they are often places that politics don’t impact

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    Well, was it a photo of an adult tooth or a baby tooth? Adult teeth are too mature for the younguns.

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        post some non political content then. encourage others to.

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        Would you rather have a place where you can’t talk about it or else you get banned and any dissent is killed and banned and it’s slowly getting worse day by day?

        Or a foss freedom free structure platform where people can ACTUALLY talk about what’s on their mind? Hmmmm?

        Sounds like you have some privileges you maybe need to realize you have.

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          No you don’t understand, they didn’t say they weren’t on Lemmy, they are as you clearly noticed. So they do have access to all the political discourse they want when they want it.

          They said that Lemmy is too politically dominated and that some communities only live on Reddit rn.

          I kinda agree, I use Lemmy 99% of the time but when a new Poe league releases the poebuildsdiscussion has interesting information about the game, not having political discourse in that community is irrelevant since that’s now what’s about. I’d prefer if it was here but there clearly is no interest, as a transition was attempted with the API exodus and it failed.

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          Reading a discussion thread about some obscure TV show that there is no communify for on Lemmy is… “privilage”?

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        If there was some decent political discussion I wouldn’t mind it as much

        The problem is that people here can’t stand to see anything they might disagree with.

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          right wingers and the tankies are the only ones bitching about how thier political discussion isnt being discussed. i dont care either way, as long as it doesnt becomes obnoxious

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            I once made the mistake of saying something against Luigi and had the comments jump on me. This is as much of an echo chamber as anywhere else.

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          You mean there are too many people who disagree with stuff they disagree with?

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    “Estimate age from selfie”?! Wtf have we become…

    When I was 14, I looked like I was 20. When I was 20, I looked like I was 35. When I was 35, I looked like I was 50. You can’t determine someone’s actual age from a fucking photo. Jesus.

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      I have perpetually looked like I’m 12 since 2008. That’s the most common number people always give me when they guess my age. I’m so sure an AI would somehow guess correctly.

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      Reddit doesn’t really care; they’re going to do the bare minimum legally so they can feed more ads and get more clicks.

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        You nees to do a video looking left, right, saying some numbers. The companies that do the verification are owned by Peter thiell and co

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      When I was working at a local supermarket, we had the instructions to explicitly ask anyone for ID that we deemed 40 or younger, when they tried to buy tobacco or alcohol. For that exact reason.

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    Reddit needs a better tagging system than just NSFW. It was pointless having a filter when you don’t subscribe to any porn subreddits and all the ones you are subscribed to don’t allow porn in the first place. It’s only natural people started using NSFW for other things, most notably spoilers, which I believe they’ve added in recent years. If you had the filter enabled, you ended up missing out on content.

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    Can’t have kids looking at teeth! Next thing you know, they’ll want to become, forgive me for this, dentists.

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    Fun fact: I can’t see the screenshot as I’m in the UK and your instance has taken the maximally paranoid literal meaning of the OSA and blocked access just in case anything’s accidentally not flagged as NSFW.

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        You know how everybody blames boomers for various things, which had nothing to do with them, they were merely victims of the capitalist corrupt systems they lived under? This is your generation’s failure to address the needs of the future. Good luck.

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          It’s really weird for you to start flinging divisive shit at someone who wasn’t being ageist to begin with, but if you wanna fling shit, start by telling me the average age of the parliament that passed this law.

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      taken the maximally paranoid literal meaning

      Them people won’t get hung on a technicality. You have to be nuts not to be paranoid these days.

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        With how the law is written, if you think anyone might ever make a mistake (likely), think the government might ever bother going through the hassle of enforcing it (probably less likely if you’re not running a big website), and don’t have loads of spare money to pay huge fines with or to pay an age verification service with (likely), then blocking the UK is the only way to be compliant. It doesn’t require a technicality. The law just doesn’t have any leeway for honest minor mistakes or small hobbyist websites.

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      Images should load from your local Lemmy instance right?

      But checking now I see you, OP and the com are all from the same instance. So I’m confused.

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          Oh shit, my bad. Was reading too fast.

          But still, the image should load from your local instance right? So in that commenters case, lemmy.world right?

          Edit: at least on my instance, it appears to go through a proxy on my local instance:

          https://images.lemmy.zip/api/v3/image_proxy?url=https%3A%2F%2Flemmings.world%2Fpictrs%2Fimage%2F3b9a4c4b-3079-4e67-a5e2-0cd49074d81f.png
          

          Do some other instances direct link images?

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            Proxying was added after a bunch of csam attacks, where every instance admin would have to block it themselves. Now with proxying an admin can either block it themselves or the original posting instance can block it.

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      At least on lemmy we can just block instances that do idiotic things like that and still use the rest of the service