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    What the heck is this convoluted, but incoherent post? OP must have ADHD jumping between these topics and thinking they’re related

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    Is there an association between adhd and food delivery?

    My moomer trait is I just don’t get food delivery.

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    Most of the delivery services here in the UK even in places with big roads use bicycles, mopeds, or at most a small hatchback car. They can easily fit through that city.

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        Oh goodness, this is reminding me of the SUV/truck hellscape most manufacturers are trying to push nowadays. Even my inner car guy hates those with a burning passion, as it killed so many cool cars.

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    … they deliver food in old city centres like this al the same, they just use bikes or mopeds.

    Also non-car food delivery is better, especially during rush hours.

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    Carbrains cant imagine how a system that yeets you across the city at 70kmph underground could exist.

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      The title is garbage, but ADHD folk can have a lot of problems preparing food, even ordering food.

      Having an option if all else fails is a lifesaver (getting regular-ish nutrition & not starving for a couple of days at a time - not a short term issue, but the psychological effects can compound over time … this is also the segue/mechanic why so many adhd ppl develop persistent depression).

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        I appreciate where you’re coming from, but understand this is a very personal issue for me. I’ve been dealing with it for the majority of my life.

        I’m not going to challenge the specific merits of food delivery. But everyone deals with their disorder in their own way. For example, I solve this issue by simply living next to a grocery store in a walkable area. It’s something I’ve worked towards over time.

        What infuriates me is someone trying to code something as “ADHD-adjacent” - and in this case, pass it off as though exploitative gig service delivery apps are some kind of accessibility measure. We are particularly susceptible to the weapons of the information age, which has engineered easy dopamine hits within the reach of our fingers at all times. They are NOT there to make our lives better. They are there to exploit, profit, and manipulate.

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        Speaking as an adhd person:

        I cannot afford to use these services.

        I cannot deal with their bullshit, and, as someone with marginalized aspects of my identity, cant deal with their spyware.

        I can, however, walk about a block to a 24 hour grocery store or pizza place thats open late. If i fucked up.

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        Nearly every single restaurant had food delivery services prior to Uber/Doordash’s existence. Many still have.

        I mean, there’s a reason pizza delivery scooters have been a thing since the 1980’s.

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        I feel seen

        Other delivery options help or like pre-ordering pickup on apps have saved my life, but there was a span where I was living on delivery because I couldn’t shop…still kind of can’t figure out what my ‘easy’ foods can be that are also not gonna make my heart hurt.

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    You’re lazy and can’t accept that you have no self control. Stop blaming mental illness. Yes people have it. No it isnt the reason you are worthless sack of shit. That’s all you.

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      It feels good that people are finally starting to feel comfortable saying the harsh truths again. We’ve been living in some bs cancel culture the past few years and it is now coming to an end.

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      With ADHD, you can suddenly be depleted of energy, not have the motivation to cook, or simply forget to eat. When you get hungry you can go ," Ah whatever I’ll order delivery"

      NOW. It may be more prominent in ADHD folk, as myself, but it is not just an ADHD folk issue. This person is just making ADHD their entire personality, and pointing fingers at things they don’t like.

      Also, I’m almost positive that Madrid( is this Madrid?)has food delivery services.

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        food delivery services are better in car-light places, because cars (as we all know) fundamentally fucking suck shit.

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      Literally nothing.

      Shitty people will associate ANY impulsive decision with ADHD because they get all their mental health information from short-form content.

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    My euro brain cannot comprehend that Americans are discussing about it like it’s something weird or exotic let alone anything special.

    Love you all and would love to have a huge ass truck and a shotgun and live the Pißwasser advertisement lifestyle, but it’s really just a square. Sometimes they do markets there from like 6am-9am on a Saturday though which is nice if you hate sleeping. Also there’s probably a McDonald’s. Now you know all our town square secrets

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      Where do I park my truck? I dont see a single parking lot in this pic and im sure as hell not walking

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        You need to get a smaller truck that fits in your regular one for driving into the city. Like with a yacht, no need to walk, that’s for losers

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    Ah yes, traditional urban cores, historically entirely without any good food options, either delivered, on the go, or even sit-down at odd hours

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    “my car brain cannot fathom how such places can exist, where is the parking, why aren’t there more lanes???”

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    I have ADHD and never once used and doordash or Uber stuff…I may be all over the place but I’m not an idiot who would willing pay 25-50% extra for nothing .

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      Never used a delivery app in my life. This person is just using ADHD as an umbrella term for “impulsive decisions”, which is an inherently shitty thing to do.

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      Pretty sure I’m not ADHD, but I completely agree on that 25-50% thing. It’s ridiculous. I’ve never had a craving that was bad enough to justify throwing money away.

      Come to think of it, if I ever do have a craving that bad, I wouldn’t trust my food to DoorDash. I’ll pick it up myself and make sure my order is still warm when it gets to my house.

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      The extra is to save the time of getting there and back. Mostly not worth it but occasionally that extra 0.5h at home are all that’s keeping your house manageable.