Suffolk Police officers laughed at Essex woman's sex toys
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A woman is paid £3,500 in compensation after officers act unacceptably during a search of her home.
    • Carvex@lemmy.worldEnglish
      36·
      5 days ago

      Would you rather cum from a bunch of toys for $3K total or one $3K sex toy that should in theory be mind blowing?

        • NigelFrobisher@aussie.zoneEnglish
          4·
          4 days ago

          Bruce contradicts himself a lot - elsewhere he says “a punch is just a punch. A kick is just a kick.” He also advises you to learn the form, and then forget the form.

          • bent@feddit.dkEnglish
            4·
            4 days ago

            Learning the form then forgetting the form is pretty normal in any discipline. First you learn how to do it, like how to punch, kick and block. Then you learn sequences and combinations. You learn these to perfection. When your body knows the moves you can start improvising and you need to forget the sequences and combinations in order to adapt.

            Same goes for all art, applied science, most jobs, even social structures, economic models etc. First you learn the basics, then you learn the complex rules, when you master then you can break the rules and improve upon it.

            • NigelFrobisher@aussie.zoneEnglish
              2·
              3 days ago

              I sort of get what he was going for, but it’s also very Confucian and kind of nonsense. I think in some of the films you see him doing little bits of Jeet Kun Do form during downtime. Muscle memory is still memory, Bruce!

  • Allero@lemmy.todayEnglish
    36·
    5 days ago

    Good. Seriously, I hope such actions will be met with complaints and lawsuits everywhere.

    Sexual life is a very sensitive and intimate subject, and it’s bad enough that she even had policemen invade it by opening the box (though this in particular is obviously a necessary part of police operations), let alone make a laughing matter out of it.

    In general, though, I hope we will be able to eventually get more open about such things, so that it would be seen as a regular set of household items, even if it’s hidden from plain sight.

  • Etterra@discuss.onlineEnglish
    261·
    4 days ago

    Good on her. Fuck the cops. Too bad the police spend must of their budgets on lawsuits instead of, ya’know, vetting and training.

  • Professorozone@lemmy.worldEnglish
    8·
    4 days ago

    I think it’s hilarious that this comment section is full of support for the woman AND laughter over her sex toys. Think about it.

  • daw@feddit.orgEnglish
    7·
    5 days ago

    I love that this had any sort of consequence. I do not thinkthis would have been an option in Germany.

  • Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3026·
    5 days ago

    FFS do they really have to write headlines that imply the exact opposite of what happened? At first read, I thought the woman had been made to pay £3k, not that she had gotten paid £3k.

    I know “headlinese” is a thing and all, but is adding the word “got” really that inconvenient?

    • chunkystyles@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      35·
      5 days ago

      I understood it just fine. “Got paid” sounds very informal. “Is paid” or “was paid” would be slightly clearer.

      The opposite would be “fined” or “pays”.

    • leftytighty@slrpnk.netEnglish
      65·
      5 days ago

      The past tense “paid” doesn’t go with “laughs.” Are you complaining about a misunderstanding you had for the time it took you to read 3 more words? Or do you not understand tense?

      • Cethin@lemmy.zipEnglish
        131·
        5 days ago

        In case you didn’t figure it out, the headline is ambiguous between her giving or receiving the money. Reading “three more words” doesn’t change that.