• Kbibble@lemm.ee
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    This article feels super rage bait-y to be honest. Like my first reaction at the title is of course, being like “thats fucked up” but as im reading it, it feels like this article was written in a manipulative way. There’s no sources at all, can’t find any using English google, decided to literally figure out how to search Dutch google in Dutch just to find something more reputable and there’s only this one site, which has 2 articles, the only 2 links in either is one article pointing to the other, and another link to what is clearly (from the add/article layout) a Belgium tabloid of some kind.

    Like nothing about the people involved or the situation, but this website is some shit, and so is the other one covering this. They may be on the right side of this story but this website itself feels incredibly un-credible, and I wouldn’t think to assume Belgium has some sort of news media problem where like, the gossip tabloids are the last bastions fighting for bodily autonomy and consent, where it would make sense that there is no other source.

  • SkunkWorkz@lemmy.world
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    In Belgium a couple of years ago a brown student died during a hazing at a fraternity. Every one involved , all white and sons of doctors, lawyers and judges, basically came away scott free. They were all sentenced to community service and weren’t found guilty for criminal negligence.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Sanda_Dia

    Belgium has a elitism problem. Bet if this rapist was a brown medical student or a street sweeper or something he would’ve gotten jail time.

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      I think you have enough pedos in your own country to worry about a thing from 30 years ago

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    JFC, I was afraid this was in the US. I’m not pleased to realize there are other places just as fucked up. Though in the US the excuse for letting him off would have to be that he was rich, not brilliant.

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      In the US and a lot of other countries this wouldn’t even be considered rape. It’s good that it is here, but this case isn’t quite as easy as it seems on first glance.

      I think the judge made the right call here. It was a drunk hook up where both people were drunk, but conscious. The girl was quite a bit more drunk to the point where she was ruled unable to consent in a legal senses despite the fact she did and several witnesses confirmed she did.

      Again, still rape, which is sex without consent, but very far from the vicious predator most people are picturing right now.

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        Yes, she made contact with him, he called her GF’s who didn’t answer bcs it was late and finally went home with him.
        Bcs she was too drunk it is considered rape.
        This article is doesn’t accurately tell the events.
        But I agree he wouldn’t be let off if he wasn’t a privileged student.

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    no sentence be passed as this would result in the accused having great difficulty in finding work in the medical profession.

    I wonder why the medical profession doesn’t want rapists… 🤔

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      Oh, and he’s going to be an OB/GYN.

      Just a coincidence, of course. Because he cares that much about women.

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      What’s the guys name? You’re right that we need to treat him like that other rapist, Brock Allen Turner.

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          There’s just the one Brock Allen Turner, rapist, of which I’m aware. This other guy, though, needs to be made as famous as Brock.

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    19 hours ago

    " By finding him guilty but not punishing him, he will be made to feel guilty and the chance of him reoffending will be prevented, without socially impairing the man "

    So that judge is either a rapist or an idiot.

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    Hey, I’m really young and talented! I would hope to one day meet an awesome playmate like Lulu Chu. She is awesome like Tera Patrick but in a more docile… Oh my wife said no. Sorry Lulu! Maybe pen pals? I’ll check with my wife.

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      Thanks for pointing this out.

      He claims that he asked her several times if she consented and that he had been given the impression that she did.

      Seems like it was more of an “unintentional rape”, like manslaughter is unintentional murder. Wrong: yes. Bad judgment: yes. Deliberate malice: maybe not.

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      She was unable to walk-drunk, he got her home.
      This guy wants to be a gynaecologist for fucks sake.

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          Really?
          You don’t see a problem with this guy being alone in a room with a woman in a vulnerable position having her genitals touched?

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    Ok I can understand if he was caught with pot, drug paraphernalia, or drunk driving (without injuring someone).

    But raping someone? Idc if you’re talented or have a bright future you should have it on your record or face a punishment like probation

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    The man hasn’t been named by Belgian media. 😠

    Internet detectives, hear my call! Find the name of this rapist so that we may plaster it everywhere like the rapist Brock Turner!

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    And when I say I don’t trust judges and that the justice system of most places is broken for giving a single person the final decision power, based on whatever they think is right, people say I’m trolling.

    Judges pull decisions out of their ass to fulfill whatever interest they have. Or sometimes just because they are stupid.

    Good judges are super rare.

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      Yeah, better let the internet mob, who barely takes time to read an understand a newspaper article, pass judgement.

      That’s a judiciary system I’d want to live under.

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      You’re absolutely right unfortunately. I had to witness myself. That day, I lost my believe in our justice system (that was in Germany).

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      Yeah in this case I think it’s more a case of “hey this guy looks kind of like my son”. In this case I think it led to a miscarriage of justice, but I think in other cases that kind of thinking could protect against excessively harsh punishments. In the end I think it comes down to inequality. Bigger inequality shrinks the pool of people judges can intuitively relate to, which in turn makes judgements more unequal.

  • But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world
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    So if he’s gonna rape as a med student, he’s definitely gonna rape as a doctor. And that judge is a rapist too, judging from their warped views

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        He probably did something similar in his past. Maybe raped a drunk girl at a party or similar while in undergrad. Never got caught for it, and never went on to do it again. So he figured if he can learn his lesson and not repeat the crime, why not this kid? Justice to the victims isn’t even considered.