YarraByte@aussie.zoneM to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 6 days agoDiscussion Thread 🦊 Saturday 15 November 2025message-squaremessage-square82fedilinkarrow-up114arrow-down10
arrow-up114arrow-down1message-squareDiscussion Thread 🦊 Saturday 15 November 2025YarraByte@aussie.zoneM to Melbourne@aussie.zone · 6 days agomessage-square82fedilink
minus-squareSpinMeRound@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up11·6 days agoSeeing my mother today for the first time in over 5 years, so of course spent the night going over every possibly argument and guilt trip she’ll pull up. However, am taking Boyo, who she hasn’t met, so she’ll certainly be on her best behaviour.
minus-squareSaneMartigan@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up9·6 days agoYou don’t have to see her for another five years if she’s a dick about things.
minus-squareStudSpud The Starchy@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7·6 days agoSome mothers are just… Ugh! Sending you good vibes!!
minus-squareAlamutjones@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up5·6 days agoShe can make her own choices about how to behave…but if she chooses to be shitty then that has a consequence, and it won’t be a reflection on you
minus-squareLowExperience2368@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up4·6 days agoEvery child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child. Hope it goes okay.
minus-squareEagle@aussie.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up4·6 days agoBig deep breaths. You are strong, capable, kind and loved despite her intentions to make you feel otherwise.
Seeing my mother today for the first time in over 5 years, so of course spent the night going over every possibly argument and guilt trip she’ll pull up. However, am taking Boyo, who she hasn’t met, so she’ll certainly be on her best behaviour.
You don’t have to see her for another five years if she’s a dick about things.
Or ever
Some mothers are just… Ugh!
Sending you good vibes!!
Hope all goes well for you. :)
She can make her own choices about how to behave…but if she chooses to be shitty then that has a consequence, and it won’t be a reflection on you
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child. Hope it goes okay.
All the luck! 🐈⬛🐈⬛🐈⬛
Big deep breaths. You are strong, capable, kind and loved despite her intentions to make you feel otherwise.
This made me tear up, thank you 💜