• Demdaru@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Not OP but I am, dammit. “Leave” is not the same as “piss yourself” or anything like - there is no consequence of any kind tied to it, so what is exactly being forceful here? Shit, the girl could just verbally assault the idiot and then leave. No forcing here, stop it, situation is already awful, no reason to add fantasy to it.

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      3 days ago

      Not being able to use the bathroom is being forced to leave the premises.

      This is no different than having whites only restaraunt.

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        3 days ago

        Being forced to leave the premises is not being forced to flash breasts. And as I said, situation is terrible, no need to add sexual predation fantasy to it

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          You really don’t get it?

          She wasn’t forced to flash her breasts. (I mean wrong choice of words as flash implies nudity, which isn’t what happened). she was forced to have someone berate her because they thought she was a man. What right did that server have to follow someone into a bathroom and declare they are a man and need to leave? What proof did the server have?

          The bottom line is you are the one sexualising this. She didnt flash, she unzipped her hoodie to show that there were breasts under her shirt. The issue is she shouldnt have to have done that to get that server to leave her alone. What alternative did she have? And dont say she could leave because thats bullshit. She doesn’t have to leave. The server needed to leave.