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      My mom wouldn’t leave Facebook if you paid her. She treats it like it’s the entirety of the Internet

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        I thought Facebook was dying a few years back and I only became more convinced when an older family member was trying to convince me that it wasn’t.

        A social media app that targets old people can’t last.

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        Friendica for Facebook

        Pixelfed for Instagram

        Loops for Tiktok maybe, Haven’t tried either though

        Choice of XMPP/Signal/Element for whatsapp

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          Your average person, let alone tech illiterate boomers, is never going to hop on to federated services.

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            Except all the people switching to Bluesky?

            The issue isn’t federation, it’s the onboarding and “style” of social media.

            Also I don’t think there is a Facebook equivalent is there? If people weren’t on Reddit they aren’t gonna care about Lemmy. The Facebook crowd need a good alternative before they will migrate.

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              My queer FB friends have been moving to Bluesky, which is frustrating because I’ve been on Mastodon for a year. But, whatever. I can deal with two accounts.

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            As-is, no, but an app with a slick dumbed down interface that all we nerds already here despise and equally slick on-boarding flow that hides all the “technical” details could

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            Just need to frame it right. Facebook is full of <insert country they don’t like> propaganda, frendica is much harder to not.

            Pixelfed is also good enough that Zuck is actively blocking it, so we’ve got one.

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          yeah, lemme just sit on friendica all by myself because im the only person in my life that knows what any of this is, no one is moving to these that has a large presence on the meta versions

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            This is the first I’ve heard of it and I’ve been here since the Reddit exodus

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            Okay, but if you’re Friendica user you can natively interact with ActivityPub services like Lemmy or Mastodon, and there are addons enabled on some instances adding BlueSky and Tumblr as well, so if you know anyone using them, you’ll be able to interact with them

            Also if you’re interested in following people you don’t know, there’s Friendica directory, so you’ll not be alone

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        For kids there is TinyBeans. That’s half the reason my older family uses FB anyway… and no way in hell am I putting my kid on FB.

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      Thankfully, mine are too old to ever give a shit about anything on the internet. Sadly, my mother watches fox 24/7… my father doesn’t care for any of it at least and also pokes fun at her for watching that garbage. He still thinks Trump is good because, in his views, he made his stock the highest it ever was, and that’s all that matters. I’m only grateful we never talk about any of it when they see my kids or on holidays.