What are you thinking? Is it about location, position, wardrobe size, chakra alignment, neighbours, bench space, where you can put your welcome mat which tells people to fuck off, ability to see sunrise/set, walkability to your favourite coffee spot? Are you just doubting your own ability to choose or that you’re amazing at blocking out opinions around you?
Either way, dump it all here. It might help, it might not. No promises any way.
So it turns out I’ve completely misunderstood the nature of this apartment hunt.
The whole thing has stirred up some…complicated feelings in me, and I don’t know what to do with them
Sharing them here is clearly the answer.
What are you thinking? Is it about location, position, wardrobe size, chakra alignment, neighbours, bench space, where you can put your welcome mat which tells people to fuck off, ability to see sunrise/set, walkability to your favourite coffee spot? Are you just doubting your own ability to choose or that you’re amazing at blocking out opinions around you?
Either way, dump it all here. It might help, it might not. No promises any way.
Is the mismatch between your own needs/wants/desires? Or a mismatch between your own wants/needs and what other people think you ought to want/need?