Right there with you buddy. I struggle bad enough trying to figure out wtf I’m supposed to be doing in monogamous relationships. This polygamy shit is crazy to me.
You really don’t need a lot of rules, I know a lot of people swear by stuff like relationship contracts and the like. But realistically that’s never been something I’ve pursued and that does seem incredibly overwhelming. Current relationship the rules are as follows: don’t bring STDs home, don’t bring people over during normal sleeping hours without approval, preferably a couple days of notice; and don’t become emotionally unavailable otherwise it’s not really a relationship. That’s it.
And then there’s my autistic ass that just sees a fuckton of socialization rules there and I’m already panicking
Right there with you buddy. I struggle bad enough trying to figure out wtf I’m supposed to be doing in monogamous relationships. This polygamy shit is crazy to me.
Bro I’m with you I’m not even autistic and this shit just seems emotionally exhausting.
You really don’t need a lot of rules, I know a lot of people swear by stuff like relationship contracts and the like. But realistically that’s never been something I’ve pursued and that does seem incredibly overwhelming. Current relationship the rules are as follows: don’t bring STDs home, don’t bring people over during normal sleeping hours without approval, preferably a couple days of notice; and don’t become emotionally unavailable otherwise it’s not really a relationship. That’s it.