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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • Is it because I’m (probably) autistic?

    No, it’s a basic human decency thing. No man I know would (intentionally) touch without invitation (whether verbal or body language) and if someone does they deserve a smacking.

    The most common gray area is tight crowds where some assholes try to get away with groping disguised as “accidents” which is disgusting.

    Besides, alcohol and drugs are no excuse. If you can’t control yourself under the influence, don’t use them.








  • Maybe. In my experience showing certain emotions as a man at all can be ridiculed or seen as weakness - which is what I was referring to in my comment.

    Allowing yourself (as you say) to be overwhelmed by emotion can definitely leave you weak/physically vulnerable - but the weakness here is not the emotions themselves but rather the lack of control.


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    I disagree.

    A lack of feeling is also a kind of weakness - usually it’s due to long-term suppression of emotion and leaves you out of touch with your inner self. Bottled up emotions tend to be rather damaging in the long term. Plus, you don’t just lose out on the hurtful/bad emotions.

    Acknowledging and overcoming negative feelings takes more strength than simply ignoring them.


  • It’s possible to reduce the privacy issues by using APIs with a local frontend. Given that APIs usually cater to companies instead of end consumers they actually have simple opt-outs for information logging.

    Requires a bit of know-how, and you’ll be paying for your llm per use (not that bad actually, I’ve personally averaged <10$/yr in api costs) but at least you get to have all your personal issues on your local device instead.

    For a chatGPT-like experience you probably want the ooga booga web generation ui but there’s others too.


  • Honestly from the point where

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    Walter was offered to have his entire treatment paid for and turned it down in favour of selling drugs…

    …he lost all my sympathy. I was increasingly curious about how things were going to go wrong for him. More fascinating train wreck, less investment in him personally.