Of course its fine to dislike engaging with someone who complains about crypto or kids, but making a judgement on someone’s reasoning for having kids is a whole other thing.
Having kids doesn’t stack up for you. Totally fine.
However, asserting that your own reasons apply to everyone else is arrogant.
Iv basically never met a single parent that non stopped bitched about their kids that was also a good parent.
While iv also basically never met a single parent that wouldn’t shut up about how much they love their kid that wasn’t a good parent.
While a parent can do a little of both, it’s pretty damn obvious which way a person leans after even a short amount of time. People self report real God damn fast on this topic.
Think of it more like someone complaining that they lost money on crypto trading.
It’s very Billy Crystal SNL “oh I hate when that happens”
Sure ok.
Of course its fine to dislike engaging with someone who complains about crypto or kids, but making a judgement on someone’s reasoning for having kids is a whole other thing.
Having kids doesn’t stack up for you. Totally fine.
However, asserting that your own reasons apply to everyone else is arrogant.
Iv basically never met a single parent that non stopped bitched about their kids that was also a good parent.
While iv also basically never met a single parent that wouldn’t shut up about how much they love their kid that wasn’t a good parent.
While a parent can do a little of both, it’s pretty damn obvious which way a person leans after even a short amount of time. People self report real God damn fast on this topic.
And frankly there’s way more of A then B.