husband and i are both autistic, so we were always very accepting of others. we’re also both bisexual, my husband being almost exclusively gay except for when it comes to me.
when we found out our 15-year-old leo was gay, we were very happy for him and we told him that he was still our leo we loved.
I never had a problem with any group, I am generally passively in support of people I don’t have much connection to. However before I had my child I started becoming more actively supportive simply because he COULD be. But even groups that my son can’t possibly be (minority for example) I’ve been supporting them more because the compassion in me is higher than it was. Like, I always cared, but I wasn’t as driven to care, if that makes sense?