• fruitywelsh@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    I think people really forget the “it takes a village” lesson andremebrer that no kid is raised only by their mom and dad.

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      1 year ago

      There was a video about this posted a bit ago. The speaker said basicly this same thing. After the age of 7, the environment that your kid is placed into, and the other people they are around, has for more influence on them that the parents have.

      You do your best for the first 7 years, and then you do your best to find the right environment for them for the rest of their lives.

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      1 year ago

      The modern way of raising kids where it’s just the two parents and nobody else is so destructive. Groups do it so much better!

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    1 year ago

    I have 2 young adult children (20’s), and in retrospect I can see a few things we could have done better, but otherwise kept them safe, healthy, and I personally always pushed for them to be independent. I’m of the belief that there is no perfect way to raise a child. You can follow every line of wisdom, and still not get the results that were supposed to be the outcome of said wisdom.

    I also firmly believe that our environment is extremely toxic. Both socially and literally. Short of raising children 1000 miles from a city, perhaps a farm in the middle of no where, there is very few options for a healthier environment. Unless you are inherently wealthy, or grew up in a place similar, and are able to pass that lifestyle down…