I was one of the first generations that had smartphones and social networks and accessible games (1996), and I spent most of my childhood just sitting home playing games. I was thankfully still forced to do sports, so I at least don’t look like the negative nerd stereotype, but while I’m glad for it, I don’t remember almost anything from them and simply suffered through so I can get back to a PC.
It has fucked up my life pretty considerably, and I’ve spent the last few years trying to unfuck it and do something else. But learning how to spend time in your late 20s, when literally the only thing you’ve ever done is sit at a computer is super hard, and everything feels like a boring waste of time, and I keep cycling between giving up and just continuing to ignore the problem, especially when something happens and I’m stressed, or alcohol that allows me to at least somehow function outside at events. Which I’ve done kind of succesfully, DJing and organizing events for local subculture, but I simply can’t do that sober no matter how I try.
And that’s after I spent almost a decade of trying hard to change it, including professional help, and my deep hatred for social networks and enshittification keeps me from at least wasting time on FB/IG/Twitter or other timesink sites, and I don’t watch movies or tv shows.
I can’t imagine what it must be for people used to just watch shows all day, while also being content with using TikTok and IG, and while I started playing at ~4 y.o on Dreamcast, got a phone during elementary school and Facebook during highschool, you now get toddlers playing on tablets or watching YT.
And now, we add AI to the mix, where you don’t even have to formulate your sentences properly to be able to message someone, or invest effort into reading more difficult or longer texts, since you can just summ it or get an AI to write it. Generation that grows up with this as something normalized will be fucked up beyond recognition.
I was one of the first generations that had smartphones and social networks and accessible games (1996), and I spent most of my childhood just sitting home playing games. I was thankfully still forced to do sports, so I at least don’t look like the negative nerd stereotype, but while I’m glad for it, I don’t remember almost anything from them and simply suffered through so I can get back to a PC.
It has fucked up my life pretty considerably, and I’ve spent the last few years trying to unfuck it and do something else. But learning how to spend time in your late 20s, when literally the only thing you’ve ever done is sit at a computer is super hard, and everything feels like a boring waste of time, and I keep cycling between giving up and just continuing to ignore the problem, especially when something happens and I’m stressed, or alcohol that allows me to at least somehow function outside at events. Which I’ve done kind of succesfully, DJing and organizing events for local subculture, but I simply can’t do that sober no matter how I try.
And that’s after I spent almost a decade of trying hard to change it, including professional help, and my deep hatred for social networks and enshittification keeps me from at least wasting time on FB/IG/Twitter or other timesink sites, and I don’t watch movies or tv shows.
I can’t imagine what it must be for people used to just watch shows all day, while also being content with using TikTok and IG, and while I started playing at ~4 y.o on Dreamcast, got a phone during elementary school and Facebook during highschool, you now get toddlers playing on tablets or watching YT.
And now, we add AI to the mix, where you don’t even have to formulate your sentences properly to be able to message someone, or invest effort into reading more difficult or longer texts, since you can just summ it or get an AI to write it. Generation that grows up with this as something normalized will be fucked up beyond recognition.