• Demdaru@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    I’m kinda like that with chores. If I say I’ll do them, I’ll do them but I often have hard time forcing myself and ifnsomeone decides to simply do them themselves, I feel pissed off, as if that person told me I am worthless and looked at me with disdain even if I am logically aware that such person just is like that - they have time or even simply feel like doing it so they do.

    I learned to control my reaction but yeah, maybe the partner was like that without control.

    • Juice@midwest.social
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      2 days ago

      Yeah it was kinda quirky but we were still friends. It was kinda funny watching her stand there visibly cycling through various negative emotions but trying so hard not to show it