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  • imapuppetlookaway@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•How do I cope with my father hating me?
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    11 months ago

    I agree with this post. Move on and build your life your way.

    I’d like to add, in case it’s helpful, from my own experience the thinking about it never ends. My dad passed 40 years ago and i still have the same thoughts, feelings, arguments even (a little more one-sided now that he’s gone, though). I mean the dynamic might last forever, but you can separate that emotional internal dynamic from how you live your life. And there’s a kind of “this stops here” effect, because your own children will never have to deal with all that stuff, because you dealt with it and moved on. That’s something to be proud of.