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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • I think you’re oversimplifying when the social consequences for being seen as weak or effeminate have (even in recent history) been so harsh for men and boys

    I grew up on a farm and worked construction, played sports thru college, then joined the military. Raised by and around other men who make my life seem like a cakewalk.

    Every stereotypically “manly” group I’ve been apart of, dudes are all emotionally open because they’re secure in their masculinity.

    When boys/men think they’re acting “tough” by suppressing their emotions, they’re not copying men who are actually tough, they’re copying other people’s false bravado.

    That’s the entire point of what I’m saying.

    All the posturing only impresses other people that are posturing.

    the abusive structure

    And literally anyone can stop buying into it at anytime…

    If they don’t, they’re perpetrating it.

    It’s the easiest thing in the world to stop caring what douchebags think is “manly” and that’s literally all it takes to fix this


  • I mean, we’re talking about the population susceptible to it in the first place.

    All they have to do is stop being weird about it, but they’ll never do it because they’re obsessed with not seeming weird.

    It’s fucking insane that you think it’s on the rest of society to spend decades “conditioning” them to quit it with the toxic masculinity. When all they have to do, is stop doing what isn’t working and no one is impressed by.

    That’s the most ironic thing about it. All they have to do is stop pretending they’re tough, but they’re not tough enough to do it.








  • So it’s my fault other people were wrong before, and because they were wrong, that can never be true?

    Like, Martin has a decade long track record running DFL in Minnesota, you don’t need to take anyone’s word. And he’s been running the party for 9 months now…

    Have you not looked into any of that?

    Or is the difficulty putting it together? Because from what you just said this is a flaw of critical thinking, and that’s not something anyone can fix in a couple of social media comments.

    But “logic” is an actual field of study, you can take classes in college on it. And there are free resources as well. It would be best for you to start there, because while politics is important, your flawed critical thinking is most likely negatively effecting large portions of your life at every turn.



  • Buddy…

    No one is debating if Biden was a good president, the vast majority of people have reconciled that he was a piece of shit that wasn’t mentally capable to take care of himself let alone run a country.

    But:

    and that is how we got here

    Is obviously and clearly wrong, because the president before Biden was fucking trump.

    And if you’re just talking about pardons being an issue, that’s been an issue long before trump.

    The problem is a lot bigger than Biden or trump.

    why not just get rid of both parties and start over?

    Because for the first time in ~50 years we got a DNC that isn’t going to put it’s finger on the scale.

    This is literally the worst time to “get rid of” the party system. 8-16 years from now? Sure I hope a lot of shit has changed. But giving up on the party now would just mean republicans win and the DNC voting members may seat a neoliberal as chair again.

    You’re arguing that after running 26 miles we should give up on finishing the marathon, two blocks from the finish line.

    What you’re arguing for is just illogical, you’re either ignorant of a lot of shit that’s pretty basic, or lack the critical thinking to put it all.together.

    But regardless of the reason, you’re giving the worst advice possible




  • Six-figure earners “are concentrated in the largest and most expensive metropolitan areas in the United States, where the living costs are higher,” Adams said.

    That and student loans are a big part of it.

    To make 100k you likely have a bunch of student loans and need to live in an expensive area.

    There’s way too much variation in America to act like numbers mean the same anywhere.

    The more people unite against billionaires, the more we’re going to see rage bait where the goal is to draw the line anywhere else.

    America is fucked, and it’s fucked for some people even tho they make over 100k, they’re nowhere close to the problem.


  • Dayen mentions in passing that “the source of Epstein’s wealth” comes from obtaining power of attorney over the estate of Les Wexner, “from which he appropriated bunches of money” — but this is easy to misread as a euphemism for theft. In fact, Epstein was Wexner’s personal money manager, and his “appropriation” of Wexner’s funds is perfectly ordinary in the WMI — even expected.

    Article makes it sound like “business as usual”…

    But Epstein lived and ran his business out of a house Wexner owned and let him live in…

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Les_Wexner

    Like, we’re supposed to believe your first client is a billionaire who lets you work and live out of his home?

    Epstein didn’t create the ring, he just took over management. It existed before him and people owed it favors already. It’s the most likely explanation how someone with no experience or even really a business could land such a huge client that comes with a fucking house.