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Cake day: July 8th, 2023

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  • Just one thing to add, people freaking out is extremely uncommon. I haven’t even heard about a case IRL, even for trans people it isn’t something that tends to happen.

    Don’t be afraid to just guess when you are unsure, you can always ask though and at least for younger generations it isn’t seen as weird or unpolite to do so








  • Most probably, but there is always the possibility of people either being underage, stupid or unaware due to upbringing (imagine being told your whole life something is in a particular way, it isnt unreasonable not to doubt that) and I prefer to engage honestly with people even if I look like an idiot, just in case.

    Of course when clear bad faith is shown I will just not engage, or call it out, but in


  • “so I can still get the health benefits from it”

    Seriously, you aren’t getting healt benefits. You might feel better but that is the nicotine, it’s a psychological effect not something that is improving your physical health in any discernable way.

    Just understand, people don’t smoke because it’s good for their bodies, people smoke because it feels good, it’s an important distinction.






  • Yep, although it’s almost been a year since the request so I don’t know how high it’s priority wise.

    Since the question was why people use Kbin that is a big one for now, at least for me although I have an account there I just prefer lemmy since Kbin seems to be too much on its infancy and also the fact that because it doesn’t have an open API as of now, there are (almost) no apps developed.







  • Another solution if you don’t want to turn them off completely is either to:

    • Join an instance that has lemmynsfw and its alternatives blocked.

    Or

    • Block them yourself, I don’t know how to do this on browser but if you use this site on mobile, the app “connect for lemmee” has an option to block all comments and posts from people of any instance you choose, which is a lot more effective than blocking communities separately.