Heh, I’ll ask for a pic but I expect her to dump me for it. But hey, internet points!! 😂
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I really never found bots to be a problem. Maybe 1 of 20 matches and one gal I actually met started the chat with me saying she knows her profile looks like a bot but she is real and then asks me to meet her later this week for coffee. 😂 im not hot by any means, but she was… sadly it didn’t work out but damn good 45 days.
Mine has always been truth of person. No one seems to be who they really are on their profile.
I’ve paid for a few to see if it helps - It does and I feel like it was worth it up until 2 years ago when they changed how matching works. But you know what doesn’t work, people telling the truth on their profile. So great, I had better matches or in my case on bumble, better choice for matches based on who liked me. But damn if Jeni from the town next door loved “hiking” when really she just loved watching tv and one day wanted to “be more active”. She also told me she wanted to move to Spain one day… guess who also wanted to move to Europe ( Spain, wherever) - me! But I got the job and she’s pulling the “well not yet!!!” and in the end just wanted to visit and knew I have money to do this. P.s. I live in Spain now.
Each profile is a crafted (and truth bending) aspect of your life for others to review and I hate how it doesn’t capture the truth of who you really are in person. I went in being honest and found women who liked the same, but yet they were never really who they were on the app. I found my best matches when I wasn’t truthful or bent the truth a tad but yet I never stayed together long.
Best girlfriend so far, met her organically on the beach because my dog went over to say hi by licking her face. She’s a bit over the top, has tattoos everywhere including a funny phrase on her ass, but she’s the most compatible woman I’ve met so far.
I’ve paid for a few to see if it helps - It does and I feel like it was worth it up until 2 years ago when they changed how matching works. But you know what doesn’t work, people telling the truth on their profile.
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Technology@lemmy.world•A Hegseth Employee Created a Database to Track Americans Based on Their Political AffiliationEnglish
1·24 days agoYes!!! This is even better. Watch him as he spends days fuming at the tv as they talk about how he was the worst president ever
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Technology@lemmy.world•A Hegseth Employee Created a Database to Track Americans Based on Their Political AffiliationEnglish
2·24 days agoVegetables don’t talk, let alone spew toxic word shit
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Technology@lemmy.world•A Hegseth Employee Created a Database to Track Americans Based on Their Political AffiliationEnglish
18·25 days agoYep. Most states already do this and have for a long time. It’s not freely accessible and searchable, but you only need to know the information of the person to find more info on the states page.
I’m a socialist liberal who thinks Donald Trump should be struck into a conscious but unable to communicate vegetative state. Ya fuck wits, register that.
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Technology@lemmy.world•LG monitors silently install software through Windows Update without consent (videocardz.com)English
103·26 days agoYo! Me too, but I run macOS. and apple isn’t a twat, just yet.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•People who dress "nicely" to travel through airports, why?English
29·1 month agoMy company was very old school and had a dress code for all stupid situations, including travel on business. Also, fly in and fly out meetings are a thing. In the 90’s they wouldn’t let you sit in first class - before points aligned status were a thing, travel enough and you would get bumped up often when in a suit over others.
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•A solar powered website that goes offline when there's no powerEnglish
52·1 month agoCompanies claiming 99.9999 uptime is an absurd goal for a SLA, and wouldn’t even survive a small internet outage like a DDoS attack or Akamai outage. I remember in the 90s selling the idea of 5 9’s - 99.999% on my resume until some manager who Interviewed me asked me to state the expected downtime. I stopped claiming that number because it’s impossible without full active redundancy in different locations and not dependent on external providers like cloudflare ever going down.
And please don’t argue maintenance windows “cover it” because that’s not how they work in the real world today.
Downtime per year:
- 99% ~3.65 days (5,256 min)
- 99.9% ~8.77 hours (526 min)
- 99.99% ~52.6 min
- 99.999% ~5.26 min
- 99.9999% ~31.5 seconds
For my home lab I’m happy my stuff is online and content I hardly lose access when there’s a power outage thanks to my ups. But if I tracked I’d be closer to 95%. Good enough but I can’t wait till I just don’t care to run anything.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Big Tech is hiding $1.65tn in off-balance-sheet AI debtEnglish
5·2 months agoAnd like magic, there was just an article that said margin debt at an all time high… either we’re going to have a whole new class of billionaires, or we’re about to see a bubble pop like no other.
I ran out of my bags last year, but that was the whole purpose of them
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News@lemmy.world•Trump Election Documents Reveal China, Russia Targeted Joe BidenEnglish
281·2 months agoI’m beginning to think he’s at a point where he doesn’t realize he’s the guy they named in the docs. He wants to see Biden and democrats in what he reads and when he released these pages he just knew telling others that was what was in there was trust to not be challenged.
I have never felt more connected to a comic, ever.
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Technology@lemmy.world•I visited Meta's metaverse on the day it was supposed to shut down. I ended up in a horribly designed car park with no cars, for a restaurant that can sell no foodEnglish
132·3 months agoI will repeat this over and over. AI is not for you or for me, we are users of the byproduct which is money exchange. Look at search engines, google is perfect example. AI just makes it so that we users can make simple queries and get answers, Google did that too and then became this monster which makes absolutely nothing, but searching the internet is easier and billions in ad revenue.
Some may argue there are some of us power users find beneficial use of AI, but we are small subset of users who in many cases were already smart enough to do the work. I love cowork for that reason, I share code I’ve written, projects with epics and work items and cowork makes the next project just like I did. What took a week, takes hours. Time which I now spend learning the next actual thing, quantum computing.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Scientists found a cannabis compound that relieves pain without the highEnglish
24·3 months agoI miss my MJ, but it fucks with my heart so it’s a no go for me. It was critical to my recovery after a head on collision and the after effects. Doc was prescribing dilaudid, and that shit is something like sythentic heroin and his nurse i calling like every week to find out why i never filled the rx.
Nooo thanks. I hope this proves to be viable.
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Technology@lemmy.world•SpaceX’s stock slide costs founder his trillionaire titleEnglish
7·3 months agoOH NO!
So anyway, where are the Epstine files?
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Technology@lemmy.world•If Phones Are Killing Pedestrians, Why Is It Only Happening in America?English
3·3 months agoCasual observer here but i noticed a significant drop in cars in europe. People walk or mass transit. I’m sure there are stats for it but in a city where walking is 1st, people just pay attention more. Americans… will drive 2 blocks to the store and need to text BFF Jane about the latest tictok
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News@lemmy.world•Obama says U.S. may be ‘worse off’ now than before Iran warEnglish
1·3 months agoPlausible deniability. If he’s wrong he can say nothing, if he’s right he can say “I said it here”.
The guy as president was the first step in the right direction of killing off everything we see today in the USA. But no, evil won and he just gives minimal shits and sound bites.


They want a war so trump can put in war time laws. while there are a few pretty smart people on that side behind the scenes pulling the strings, the general populace has no idea how stupid this will be. Military factions, small militias, food shortages, water…