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  • You can say whatever you want, your actions are what matter, and what you did is you denied the genocide carried out by the democrats and your suggestion to stop it, was to vote for democrats who are running on continuing the genocide.
    Your arguments never managed to engage with what anyone else wrote and instead you kept repeating the same thing again and again - that thing being a weird strawman that no one was arguing for.

    So I dont really see any Marx in you, you are quite obviously dogshit at rhetorics. Plenty of Hitler particles though.








  • I joined because I wanted access to a reddit-style place that wasn’t part of the neoliberal echo chamber that is culture in the imperial core, but I had gotten tired of the bear site.

    I like the instance, I like the moderation, I like how its widely federated. I wish it did not have downvotes like hexbear does, but I find the .ml community to be much better in general, though a bit too sectarian at times.

    I prefer .ml to hexbear because hexbear has big time “midwestern covid conscious lesbian bar” vibes at times.

    My main issue with .ml is how other instances act. It’s pretty common to see ridiculous lies about .ml with a bunch of upvotes and the OP is never able to provide any proof when asked for it. But people still believe it because it’s .ml
    Same with how a lot of users’ brains will shut down when they see anything they disagree with posted by someone from this instance. All rationality goes out the window and they retreat to a frustrating ad hominem of “you’re using this instance, thus I dont have to take it seriously” - “ml detected, opinion disregarded” it’s so sad to see people be so scared.

    I also see users from other instances cry about .ml moderation. Personally I feel like it is pretty evenhanded and fair, but moderation will always skew against outsiders. I’ve been banned from some communities due to incivility while the equally uncivil person I was replying to was not. That’s just how it is everywhere, I dont go about pretending like thats some special feature of .world.

    So all in all I like it and my issue with it is mainly other instances.



  • BanMeFromPosting@lemmy.mltoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml•What’s your love language?
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    30 days ago

    They’re incredibly arbitrary. Each of them can just be collapsed into “acts of service” an act of service can be a gift, quality time is something that happens alongside the others (and is also something that can be described as a gift) and physical touch is (or should be) quality time.

    It was made up by an american pastor to gaslight women, it doesn’t have any basis beyond what he felt like. He made up arbitrary categories that would help him sell his spiel about women listening to men.

    Ive made a new category; Being nice. It takes all the other categories. The love languages are now: Being nice.