How do I join, I am so frustrated now because you are wasting my time. First it says I need a invite, then I think ok maybe if I create an account on lemmy.world. Then I do that and try but am being asked for a instance. All I know is I am trying to join https://lemmy.world/c/autism but now very much suspecting that this community will be unmoderated and hostile as well given how many tricks you have been using. Communities are either unmoderated or moderated but apply unwritten rules.
Hey Jenny sorry you’re having issues with the sub. c/autism is an open sub, so you can subscribe to it and see posts in your subscribed feed. When you click subscribe it should change to “joined” (it should be “subscribed” but that is the instance not the sub) But otherwise you should be able to post to the sub just like you did here. If you have any concerns or questions you can DM me. I may not have the answer but I will do my best to find it!