And you can say the same thing about the right with being of another skin color, sexuality, or being trans. With the big difference that these are things people ARE, while the left condemns people for what they DO.

And I certainly see a big difference there.

And while you are right that conversations need to happen, it is hard to stay calm when the other side wants to literally extinguish and genocide you or other humans in general (for those with empathy who care about more than only themselves)