• TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub
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    I don’t think it’s instinct, but a calculated selfish decision. Will I profit from spending energy, time, and money in this person? If they die, it’s a net loss, so they bail.

    Instinct only tell us to go away in case the disease is contagious.

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      2 months ago

      …that is the definition of instinct, not only survival but profit…

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        This sort of transactional view of romantic relationships is exactly how incels are born