• FerretyFever0@fedia.io
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    2 days ago

    Bro, the demographics don’t matter. Just make friends with the people that you mutually enjoy the company of. If they’re not a horrible person, then you should be friends. Expanding the demographics you’re willing to accept as friends can only really expand how many people you have as friends. Unless some of your friends have some sort of hatred for some of your other friends.

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      1 day ago

      A partner of mine had many fay male friends. She relayed a story once about one of her gay male friends hanging out with a straight person he was trying to be friends with. She showed me the texts he’d sent her on their hangout and they contained things loke: “what the fuck do straight people like?” and “what the hell are we supposed to talk about?” and “we are just kind of sitting here silently and I feel awkward”.

      I don’t have a point with this anecdote but I always laugh when I think about it.

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        1 day ago

        Good questions. Uhhhhh, some common interests include video games (gay people too), there’s sports sometimes. Cars I guess. That’s the vague shit at least. I feel like most straight guys have to like at least one of those things. Most have other interests that are more niche. Honestly, fair enough question lol, hope he found a couple out!