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Cake day: June 18th, 2023

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  • Right, thats fair, I guess VPN is a red herring then, if the service is available over the internet directly.

    I think I am out of ideas sadly, beyond it being some kind of weird ISP fuckery :/

    Maybe do a traceroute between your mate and your server and vice-versa (without VPN), just to make sure your packets aren’t getting sent somewhere odd. Some time ago I had a friend who was physically 5km away, have his packets routed 2000km away, which kinda impacted throughput.


  • Are you sure? That sounds exactly like what tailscale and headscale are good for, letting your friends have near direct access to a server within your network. (Headscale is self-hosted tailscale, bypasses account limits, but is otherwise the same thing).

    You setup your server as an endpoint on your tailscale network, and then give all your friends tailscale accounts to setup their devices on the same network. They’ll be able to talk directly to your server over a wireguard tunnel. (Caveat: cgnat can break tailscales tunnelling and cause your traffic to get relayed, which is slow. Headscale let’s you run the relay which will be faster, but it still sucks as bit).